Choosing a book is a lot like finding a date. Sometimes your eyes connect from across the room and there’s an instant spark. Sometimes a friend tells you all about them and sets you up, and sometimes it’s an entirely aesthetic choice that may or may not be a total disaster. Sometimes it’s hard to describe exactly how you ended up hand in hand but there you are.
Picking a new book (and finding a date!) are something to struggle with (unless you are happily involved in which case you better not even think of seeing any ‘books’ on the side, capice?) so let’s throw together a few tips and tricks to help you navigate the waters and find a perfect match.
1) Know what you want and look in the appropriate places.
Maybe you think that tall, dark mysterious stranger is perfect for you, despite the fact that you suspect you’ve seen their mug on America’s Most Wanted. Resist the urge to take the bait! If you are terrified of zombies and hate everything about them then don’t go wandering into the area with all the zombie books to find something new! But on the other hand if something unusual, say a sci-fi novel instead of your usual fantasy fare (or a red head instead of your much preferred blond) catches your eye give it a shot!
2) Let your friends set you up.
Say your friend has read an amazing book that they want you to read. Why are you going to turn that down? As long as your friend knows you well enough to know what you’re looking for then why not let them set you up?
3) Take a trial run.
You (usually) don’t marry someone you haven’t gotten to know, and you usually don’t buy a book that you haven’t at least sampled. Go out on a first date with the book; read the first 5 pages see if you’re still interested. Sometimes behind that pretty cover is a story that you don’t much care for, no harm. Just politely put the book down and move on to the next one. There are plenty more books on the shelves.
4) Go to the club.
Book clubs are a great way to get recommendations of what to read, and then you also have a built in group of people to discuss the book with! Everyone wins! Just make sure you find a club that is the right fit for you. Do you prefer meeting online or in person? How frequently? Does this club have a specific niche or is it wide open to all types?
5) Dive in!
So you’re still not sure and wavering on the fence about what to do. Buy the book (ask them out) or not. It’s a tough spot to be in, and sometimes the best thing for you to do is to jump straight in and take a chance! The worst that happens is that the book is not your style, or that your crush turns you down. It sucks for a while, but better things will come along and you’ll be all the braver for having taken a chance… and besides you might end up with the next love of your life by simply giving it a shot.











